Cheating someone and then craving to get back the person in life is difficult but not impossible. Sometimes we lose hope but there are definitely some ways that will be helpful in reconciliation and rebuilding the relationship towards happiness. The following are certain tried and tested methods-
Leave behind the reason
Analyze what forced you to cheat on your sweetheart and be ready to dig a grave for filing it with bad memories of the past and leave them dumped over there. You have to promise yourself come what may you won’t dig those graves back.
Genuinely be Sorry
Fall on your feet and apologize. You have to fight it out with a brave heart and show the other person how desperately you want him/her back.
Be Honest and transparent
Just admit what forced you to commit this blunder. Sometimes it can be humiliating but answer their questions honestly and be admissive rather than dismissive. This will help the other partner to regain faith and trust in you. Do not try to run away from the situation but face it with an open mind.
Open up
Once cheated, the other person has every right to know minor details and you have to tell them everything they want to know. You cannot expect them to believe you just on your verbal communication. If required, you should share your mobile, laptop, personal diary, wallet and even your itemized mobile bills. They may not really investigate but are testing you and if you agree on doing this, will start rebuilding the faith in you.
Respect the privacy of your partner
After going through the emotional turmoil, the other partner may not open up so easily and even say no to give a hearing. Please do not push them in such a situation and respect their privacy. Give them some time and if your effort is really genuine they will contact you on their own.
Be calm and composed
Try to explain the situation patiently. Anger and desperation may creep within you but you have to be resistant or you may lose your love forever since the ball is in the other court. Your anger will act as a poison rather than medicine.
Be intimate and more caring
If your partner is ready to give you a chance you have to handle her very carefully. Treat her as a friend and not only lover and shower her with love. Spend more time if she demands and try to understand her likes and dislikes and it will bring in more understanding between both of you. Take her for outing to places of her likes and remind her of the sweet memories of the past. This will really work like a magic in rebuilding the lost love.
Attitude does matter
After heartache, you have to be mature. Your partner may take some time to overcome the crisis but nevertheless if your effort is genuine, the lost love and respect will definitely make a way for you in her heart.
Pray to Almighty god
Do your work sincerely and forget about the results. Leave it on to the almighty God and he will definitely do wonders for you.
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